However, I am not in touch with him for the last 6-7 years (since I got married) and I never had any gay relationship with another man than him. It was more sexual than emotional and I enjoyed having sex with him a lot. When I was in my twenties, I had a homosexual relationship with a man, who was a friend of mine. My problem is I have been struggling with my sexual identity. My wife and I are working professionals and both work in different cities due to which we get to live together only for 20-30 days in a year. Question: Hi! I am a 37-year-old married man with children.